Not only does yelling at your kids not work, it can actually make things worse! This is according to a new study from the Universities of Pittsburgh and Michigan. According to a story in the Wall Street Journal, parents who used harsh verbal discipline on their 13 year old kids, found a greater increase in behavioral problems the next year.They also showed signs of depression.

One child psychiatrist explains that berating or shaming a child erodes any power you have. And if a child doesn't respect you, they won't listen to you.

So, any suggestions on how to keep from losing your temper when the kids are testing your patience?

More From 98.1 Minnesota's New Country